Originally published on April 6, 2010 – now with updates
As technology and social change have accelerated beginning in the 1980s humans have resisted these changes and seek reassurances from psychics and other spiritual gurus that “I am going to be okay.”
In 1992 the frequency of the planet changed and the way of the patriarchy died and something new was born. No one knows exactly what the new energy is like or how it will manifest. Our proclivity as humans is to remain the same until whatever new future is deemed “safe”. The patriarchy is hanging on – one need only look at the election of Donald Trump to see a desire to return to simpler times while in denial of a complex world.
When one asks a psychic about one’s future there are a number of underlying assumptions we’d all like to be true:
- There is a future that can be nailed where anxiety and fears are removed, then I can know I am safe and happy. ~ one possible solution: breathe through anxiousness and face fears as a way towards mastery. When we put off safety and happiness in the future we are always chasing it rather than acknowledging we may already feel safe and happy because we decided.
- I give up my power to the psychic (a parent-figure perhaps?) instead of co-creating my future with spirit. ~ one possible solution – breathe and be your own psychic – perhaps through meditation
- I believe that some “thing” in my future will make me be okay. ~ see possible solution in #1
- There is something wrong (or I am bored) with me in the present – I am incomplete. ~ one possible solution – perhaps peace is the flip side of boredom? The present is all there is. Decide you are complete, peaceful and there is nothing wrong with you.
- The content of my life (what my ego identifies with) is what makes me happy. Things and having allow me to feel secure and owning happiness – “I am in-control.” ~ one possible solution – begin with a gratefulness practice. How are you happy right now? Make a list or just contemplate this.
- I have forgotten what real happiness is (like when I was a kid) and have traded my happiness for “I’ll be happy when I have…” thus confusing content for being (an other way of stating number 4).
- I believe “magic” can make things happen and I don’t have to work for it. ~ one possible solution — making a space for unplanned events to unfold while cultivating your intuition can open doors to “magic”. Intuition may be a “spotty” thing, but without a practice to exercise intuition the the logic of daily life fills up everything and where’s the fun in that?
Anyone with intuition can see your expectations and tell you the logical conclusion to them – thus posing as a psychic and maybe doing a good job of it.
Life is 99% hard work and maybe 1% miracles or good luck. There are many factors in manifesting the content or things of our lives. Remembering that we are already happy can be increasingly difficult because we have forgotten how to play like children and have heaped personal, family and society beliefs on our plate and forgotten how happy we once were.
Once I began cultivating being within myself working towards “the future” became easier knowing that whatever happens to be “I am okay” inside.